Summer Communication Tips for a Stronger Marriage

Introduction to Summer Communication

Summer communication doesn’t have to be tedious or nonexistent. Summer is a wonderful time for families and couples to unwind, enjoy the warm weather, and create lasting memories.

But with all the excitement and activity, it’s easy to let communication with your spouse take a backseat. Effective communication is essential for a strong, healthy marriage, especially during the busy summer months.

Here are some fun and practical tips to keep your communication thriving all summer long.

Schedule Regular Check-ins

One of the simplest yet most effective ways to ensure good summer communication is to schedule regular check-ins with your spouse. This is often best when it’s a casual chat – like over coffee or on an evening walk. Use this time to discuss your plans, feelings, and any issues that might need attention.

Regular check-ins help keep both partners on the same page and prevent misunderstandings.

Scheduling these check-ins is important because far too often if we don’t actually schedule something, it doesn’t happen. So go ahead – put it on the calendar. Be sure you take the time to connect with each other. Not sure how to do that? Here are some suggestions:

Summer Communication Talking Points

• How did (situation) go at work last week/yesterday/today?
• What is the main activity you want to do this summer?
• How do you want to spend quality time with the kids this summer?
• What dates can we schedule for this summer?

Plan Tech-Free Time Together

These days it’s easy to get distracted by technology.

Dedicate specific times during the week to be tech-free and focus solely on each other. Whether it’s a picnic in the park, a hike, or simply sitting on the porch and talking, tech-free time allows you to connect on a deeper level and enjoy each other’s company without distractions.

Consider tech-free dinners in your family. This is a good idea for year-round, too. Plan events with your kids that are tech-free, as well. Yes, they may complain at first, but if you have activities planned, even just watching a movie, they’ll get involved and not miss their phone.

And for what it’s worth, my kids can’t have their phones in their rooms at night. They must be charging out in a common area. All computers are in common areas, as well. So give these ideas a try!

Summer Communication Talking Points:

• What do you enjoy about tech-free times?
• What’s difficult about tech-free times?
• Do you feel like you are misisng out on what’s happening in the world?
• What do you enjoy about time together as a family?
• What do you want to do as a family that can be done without technology?

Incorporate Fun Activities that Encourage Communication

Summer communication can be improved through new activities.

Consider activities like tandem biking, canoeing/kayaking, or cooking a meal together or making cookies together.

These activities require teamwork and communication, making them enjoyable ways to strengthen your bond. Plus, they provide opportunities to learn more about each other’s preferences, strengths, and how you work together as a team.

Summer Communication Talking Points:

• Canoeing or kayaking? Talk about where you want to go and why you are doing the activity (Fishing? Exercise? Nature ride?)
• First time on a tandem bike? Do some research together for how to make it successful. Here’s a beginner tandem bike riding article to get you started.
• Want to cook or bake together? Decide who’s the chef and who’s the sous chef (assistant). It’s okay to let your child take lead! Talk about what you want to make and why. What do you love about that food? Are their traditions or memories associated? Talk about them.
• As a family (maybe during your tech free time) brainstorm a list of activities you can do together that require teamwork, then get busy doing them! Build them into your summer plan.

Wrapping Up

Summer offers endless opportunities for couples and families to strengthen their relationship through improved summer communication.

By scheduling regular check-ins, planning tech-free time, and engaging in fun activities that encourage communication, you can ensure that your relationship remains strong and vibrant. Embrace the season as a chance to grow closer, enjoy each other’s company, and create wonderful memories together.

Here’s to a summer filled with love, laughter, and great conversations!

🌸 Andrea

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