How to Keep the Spark Alive During Summer Vacations

Summer vacations may not be the time you think of keeping the spark alive in your marriage. Most think of summer as a time for relaxation, adventure, and family fun. But between the hustle and bustle of travel plans, kids’ activities, and the general excitement of summer, it’s important to remember to protect your marriage.

Keeping the spark alive doesn’t have to be overwhelming; it can be a fun and rewarding part of your summer.

Here are some lighthearted yet effective tips for Christian wives and mothers to keep the romance blooming during summer vacations. Think romance isn’t biblical? Guess again! Scripture is loaded with stories of romance and keeping the spark alive? Not sure? Start with the Song of Solomon. 💖

Plan Romantic Getaways to Keep the Spark Alive

While family vacations are wonderful, don’t forget to carve out time for just the two of you.

Plan a romantic getaway, even if it’s just for a night or two. Whether it’s a cozy bed-and-breakfast nearby, a cabin in the mountains, or a beachside resort, these mini-vacations can reignite your connection and provide a refreshing break from the everyday routine.

Recently my husband and I found a tent camping site and spent the night in a tent. He remembered a coffee pot for me for the morning, too!

Use this time to relax, enjoy each other’s company, and rediscover what makes your relationship special.

Create Summer Traditions Together

Establishing unique summer traditions can add an extra layer of fun and intimacy to your marriage.

These traditions could be as simple as having a weekly ice cream date, taking sunset walks, or attending local outdoor concerts.

My husband and I take walks on the beach at night in the summer. This is a tradition that brings extra meaning for us since the beach is not his favorite place. But he knows I love it so he takes me to enjoy the surve and the moonlight.

Traditions create shared memories and give you both something to look forward to. Plus, they reinforce that your relationship is a priority, even with a busy summer schedule. When you create traditions together you are creating opportunities for shared meaning, another benefit to starting something new!

Embrace Spontaneity to Spark Love and Surprise Each Other

Summer is the perfect time to embrace spontaneity and add a little excitement to your marriage.

Surprise your spouse with a picnic lunch, an unexpected day trip, or a fun new activity neither of you has tried before. Plan a fun date you haven’t done before. Here’s a list of great summer date ideas.

I have to admit, my husband is the KING of spontaneity. I should have him write an article sometime about the 5 keys to being spontaneous. Even though I’m not a pro, I give it a shot. Surprising your spouse (in loving ways) adds fun to marriage. And often marriages need more fun!

These surprises don’t have to be grand or expensive; it’s the thought and effort that count. Embracing spontaneity can bring a sense of adventure and joy, keeping your relationship lively and full of anticipation.

Conclusion

Keeping the spark alive during summer vacations is all about finding joy in each other’s company and making intentional efforts to nurture your relationship.

By planning romantic getaways, creating summer traditions, and embracing spontaneity, you can ensure that your marriage remains vibrant and strong.

So, as you enjoy the warmth and beauty of summer, remember to cherish and celebrate the love you share. Here’s to a summer filled with romance, laughter, and unforgettable moments with your spouse!

Peace & Love

🌸 Andrea

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